We so often set a goal to achieve something. Then it moves into being significant. we now have to focus 100% down the’ win pathway’ to make sure we have it. It has become finite.
And of course if we don’t achieve it this reality considers that a failure.
What if there was another way? Even maybe an easier one.
Instead of going down the tunnel vision of seeing the light only at the end what if we made a different choice?
What if we went joyfully trail blazing our way with questions that created possibilities? By using questions that don’t require an answer we expand our horizons. We create more choices and remove limitations.
Questions like ‘what else is possible that I haven’t even considered?’
If I do this will it be rewarding for me? – and if I don’t do this what will my life look like in – time and if I do this what will my life look like in – time?
And if something isn’t working out ask ‘what is it about this I am not getting?
It’s the difference between driving the same old road day in day out until one day it is blocked and you take yourself on a detour. Then we say ‘wow I had no idea this route existed and how great it is to drive down!’. And suddenly there is more expansion within us.
So what if winning what you want is more about living more in the question and making different choices that create more ease and joy?
Truth when things don’t show up like you think they will does that not create more?